So, I was chatting with Mr E about Louie and he said that Louie would turn up at my house as soon as he gets back from Spain. I made some off the cuff comment about how if he did it was cool, because I’ll just have sex with him and then kick him out afterwards. Mr E asked if I would be able to do that. I told him that I wouldn’t do it, but that I must admit that I find myself wanting to have sex again, but not actually take the route of feelings and relationships…..

I don’t think he understood, but he said that I should have fun and do what I want and that he for one wouldn’t think any less of me. Now I must stress that I couldn’t and wouldn’t do that, but I have been wondering just recently about this new concept I came up with – The Weekender.

So, for The Weekender to work I would need the house to myself for the whole weekend. Check. I would then need a willing and quite handsome participant that I know and actually want to have sex with. Che.. We’ll come back to that one! Now my plan is this: to invite said someone to my house for the whole weekend, and share a fab weekend together. Mainly sex, but with some other stuff thrown in like eating, watching films, a shower and maybe even some sleep here and there. So, on Friday night he arrives, and then on Sunday evening he leaves. By Monday morning, the weekend has passed and we both go back to our respective lives with a smile on our faces.

The plan is that we have a fab weekend that we can look back on fondly, and yet know all along that it is just for one weekend. It cuts out all the will he call, or what is he thinking crap. It cuts out all the relationship bullshit. It’s basically like renting a boyfriend. What a delicious proposition to someone like me, eh?

Now the more I think about it, the more the idea makes sense. I mean, I have a drawer full of gorgeous undies just crying out to be appreciated – and I have plans to buy many more gorgeous undies too. I have a big house all to myself at weekends. And.. let’s face it I have a new body that nobody has ever seen, and I haven’t had sex since New Years Day. That’s like 7 months – and that’s a long time.

So now, I need someone who I like enough to have sex with and spend a weekend with – and yet dont like so much that I couldn’t let him go after the weekend. Sounds easy enough, I have quite a few gorgeous male friends that I would be very happy to kick out on Sunday evening…

…I shall keep you updated on my progress!!